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On a personal note.....

I don't know how many of you watch the show Being Mary Jane on BET with Gabrielle Union but this past weeks episode kinda got to me. Well her character is involved with a married man. She didn't know he was married until she found his ring. She tried to stay away but they couldn't. So she had a run in with his wife who knows about the affair and his wife tries to come at her about what would you do if your spouse was cheating? Well she basically said at some point that it's okay to be number two because you get learn what number one is not doing. I know it's for entertainment but when is it okay for the woman on the side to be number two and try to be number one? It's not okay in my opinion and from personal experience to be on the side. Either I'm your one and only or there is nothing. You should know you are worth being number one to someone who belongs to you, not someone else's. I could never understand why people cheat? If you're not happy in your relationship or marriage, you should communicate first and try to work things out. I will tell on myself and I have cheated in previous relationships and I did it out of revenge. I found out they were cheating and I did it back and it doesn't feel good at all. I've learned a lot from my past mistakes. Two wrongs most definitely don't make things right. I don't know why it's okay to be one the side and lust after someone who doesn't belong to you. You should know your worth and know you deserve someone who doesn't have to seek around with you, never meet family or friends, don't have direct contact info and just being strung along like they are gonna leave number one for number two. I'm done ranting......

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