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What I Learned During The First Year of Marriage

Next Monday marks the first year of marriage. I can't believe it went by so fast, seems like I was still planning my wedding and driving myself crazy. I just can't believe it has almost been a whole year as husband and wife.


I had my own ideas of what marriage would be like and was excited to step into this new journey. I have heard from others that the first year is not so easy and marriage is a lot of work. 

I do have to agree that marriage is work and I feel that it is not as hard as people say. I knew my husband for years and we started off as friends first. I felt it made things easier since we already knew each other so well. I did have to get adjusted to sharing space with someone and having to make room. I have a lot of stuff as you can imagine lol. It was hard having to move stuff around but we made it work. 

I feel like the first year of marriage is truly getting to know someone and setting up your game plan of how you are going to grow together and life goals as a married couple. It is not just you anymore, it is us now. I honestly didn't think that marriage would be so different than being in a relationship but it is and it is not a bad change. I am enjoying marriage and this journey with my husband. 

I had to get used to people calling me by my new last name lol. It just felt so real, that I was really married. I am looking forward to many, many more years of happiness and love. 

See you guys tomorrow. 

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~** Drea Notes**~

It feels like we are skipping right to Summer with this weather lol. It seems like we were just complaining about Winter staying for too long lol.

I hope to find a good Summer show, seems like the ones I liked have been cancelled lol.









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  1. I hope you guys had a Happy Anniversary!

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  2. Happy Early One Year Anniversary Drea! Wishing you two many more wonderful years together! I haven't been married yet, but I hear you learn and grow so much with each other during the first year of marriage. Beautiful photo!

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